Tuesday 9 July 2013

I'm not the Mom, I'm just the Stork!: NOH8 !!

I'm not the Mom, I'm just the Stork!: NOH8 !!: So Cool! The first NOH8 picture I took back in 2010 when pregnant with Gideon and Harper was highlighted today on NOH8's Facebook and...

Friday 5 July 2013

India can be called as the Hub of Surrogacy as it is more affordable

Infertility is a great problem of modern technocratic society. Thus the demand for surrogacy gets its topmost priority in India. We understand that infertility is not about being unable to conceive it is also the trauma individual or the couple passes through. The cheaper availability of surrogates in India is attracting a lot of couples from all over the world who are unable to have children.

In Delhi there is a Clinic called S.C.I Health Care where doctors implant an embryo into the womb of a surrogate mother. If everything goes well then in nine months time she will deliver a baby. This clinic has 150 pregnant surrogates they are paid Rs 6000 dollars each. A team of doctors, lawyer’s medical professionals and support staff work in assisting the birth of 500 babies by surrogacy to Indian and International parents. They say that their motto is to see smiles in the face of childless couples. To some extent it may be true but actually this business has become one of the most attractive business as it involves a lot of money.
Medical tourism network of hospitals in India has very meticulous and stringent criteria for choosing a surrogate. The surrogate should be between21 to 35 years of age. They are married with previous normal deliveries and healthy babies. Detailed medical history, surgical history is looked and only a few are chosen. The hospital authorities maintain a record so that the same woman will not take the same task within a stipulated period of time.
In Mumbai surrogacy has flourished full fledged because of the urban population becoming too westernized. Ladies are more prone towards career building and they skip becoming till mid thirties. Sometimes for the sake of career building they sign a contract in which the clause of maternity leave is not there. Thus the problem of infertility sets in. This gives an opportunity for the business of surrogacy to survive. In Mumbai various hotels are booked to keep these surrogate pregnant mothers .Their lifestyle is given an expensive cover just because their clients are rich enough to afford it. Once the babies are delivered they are handed over to the couples and the payment is done as per the contract.
In Jaipur surrogacy is a growing industry as many childless couples abroad are coming to Rajasthan with the hope of getting a child through a Surrogate mother. Women from different walks of life do the role of surrogate mother for mostly childless Indian couples living in the Gulf, UK and other countries.
Psychologists say that worldwide couples prefer surrogacy than adoption because somewhere a sense of belongingness is involved with the former. The parent can find their own identity with the child. The country's baby business has become very popular due to the poverty. An Indian poor mother wants her baby to be free from hunger and thus have the temptation to fall into the grip of surrogacy. An illiterate mother is unaware of the rules of surrogacy and thus falls into the trap. The Indian surrogacy program sometimes exploits impoverished women. A lady from Punjab Harpreet was lured by the agents and she went through the process of becoming a surrogate mother for an American couple.
Unfortunately on account of some complication she could not survive. Her family was not given any compensation for her death. The Indian legal system is so cumbersome that hardly any poor family wants to get involved in it. Thus this business has critics. Now a days various Ngo’s have taken the task They say that sometimes when surrogate mothers die there is no or very less compensation. The industry should be regulated. Proper contract should be signed by each party so that any breach of contract by both the parties will lead to punishment.

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Wednesday 3 July 2013

Getting Surrogacy price down will facilitate several unfruitful couples to afford treatment

These days many women want to conceive due to several ailments and hazards these days many couples could not get a child. So with the advancement of science the problem is solved. A surrogate mother can be hired to bring smiles to those depressed couples.

Surrogacy in India is still a far away dream for millions of middle –class childless couples. Sometimes a surrogate mother wants much favour because some of them are very poor and they want a better lifestyle for their children, so they charge a hefty amount of money because they get a lot of amount from others who come from outside. They become used to that type of treatment and they like to become a surrogate mother to a couple who can afford to give more amounts to them.
Surrogacy Cost in India are low or sometimes nil if somebody from the family members agree to help their relatives like sister or any other female member of the family surrogacy is of two types one is called IVF gestational that include a person’s own egg and the other one involves gestational procedure with donor egg. But if a poor couple wants to have a child of their own, it becomes simply too difficult because they can’t afford to pay that kind of amount.
Surrogacy Cost should be little low so that the needy couples also can fulfil their wish and have a child of their own as it will include either the genes of both the couple or either of them. As it is in our society people go through a lot for surrogacy because sometimes our society will criticize us for doing so or our own people, to make them understand that this is nothing wrong and the child is part of their life. It involves a lot of preparations for a couple not only monetary but also mental preparations to tell the family members.
Surrogacy in India was started in the National capital New Delhi. Slowly with time it became popular. But a class of people has been always there who always opposes this method. They think that it is unethical and immoral. But they don’t see and feel the joy of many childless couples when these couples’ get an angel of their own gene. If the surrogacy cost can come down a little then million of childless couples can have a hope of having a child of their own. Adoption is the next option, but most of us think it would be better if we have a child of our own who is having our own genes whom we can call our own and bring joyous moments in our life. But the cost should be less so that middle class people also can fulfil their dreams and have a bundle of joy of their own.
The cost of surrogacy is less in India that has people from US come to India and the surrogate mother is also easily available; moreover there are no legal issues here so there is less hassle. Surrogacy cost in their own country becomes more for them and one more advantage is they can take the child back home and the identity of the surrogate mother is kept under wraps, the child is away from the surrogate so no need of worries for the parents at all. But sometimes it is emotionally problematic for the surrogate mother.
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